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  -Saturday, September 23, 2006-
Separated at 19.

Whew! I knew it was coming... Everyone knew it was only a matter of when... but then again a girl woman separated at only 19 is still ("is still"??? okei, this doesn't sound right, or does it?) somewhat bewildering and makes you wonder... It would really be hard... So, yes it is final.. M. & M. are now officially separated.

Honestly, no one was surprised, as I've said we all knew it was going to happen.. not only because we were born pessimists (okei, not because they were.. since I am always a pessimist, right? hehehe.) but because of the situation itself. I mean, she was 18 (now 19) and he was 34 (now 35); she was childish (since, she was still a TEEN) and he was... well, 34; when they fight, it was him who ALWAYS say sorry (even without knowing why or what they fought about); she wanted a baby, he gave her one (without thingking); he was madly (as in too, too, too much) inlove while she was just fooling around. I really can't blame her.. I mean, she was 18 at the time.. but I wanted to punch him hard in the stomach... or kick him in the crotch hoping that the hurt will eventually wake him and make him realize what the hell he's doing. On second thought, he's a lot older than I am.. and he's supposed to be rational... and smart (and old) enough to know what he's getting himself into (he's a middle school teacher, for crying out loud!)... A year later, I wish I did kick him in the crotch (and hard) when I had the chance!

A year later, she decided that she wants to move on without him, so he let them go... Just like that, no, "I'll fight for the love", no, "let's try one more time", no, "I can't live without you"... just like that, no dramas or whatsoever. I don't know how he did it because he is still madly inlove with her... he still wants her in his life, it's still her that he wants to see first thing in the morning and it's still her that he wants to kiss goodnight. And he's crazy for baby G. as well. Self-will??? Will power??? or maybe he's just too tired???

Now, what's left? [a]2 separate lives (dapat yata, Separate lives ang nilagay kong BG music, noh? by the way, the girl singing is italian.), [b]a separated 35 year old who's still crazy inlove with his ex, who probably lost his only child (and maybe his dignity, as Prof. C. said), now a part-time worker man, then [c]there's a separated 19 year old girl single mom to a [d]1 year old boy. The situation's sad but my heart goes out to baby boy G. Hoping that one day he'll understand.


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7 rants and raves:

Anonymous Anonymous whispered at Sunday, September 24, 2006 12:52:00 AM

Oh... so itz final na pala huh?? Poor Gabri... Buti 1 pa lang sya... hahay..

on SOUTH BORDER:
"We would love to meet [...]"
Does this mean you're flying back to the US?? wwweeeeeeee... =)






Anonymous Anonymous whispered at Sunday, September 24, 2006 3:07:00 AM

i'm sorry that it only lasted a year... but then again, maybe its one of the best things that could happen... she's way too young.. (not her age.. since she's already 19) i mean.. she still thinks like a 10 year old girl, who do what she wants when she wants without taking in consideration the consequences of her action... (just like when she wanted a baby) and do "the attitude scene" (tantrums) when she doesn't get what she wants...

don't worry too much 'bout baby G. i'm sure he'll be fine... he got great grandparents! =)

naku pa-salamat yang si Max at italian sila pareho kung hindi baka na-itak na yan.. hahaha! jk! =)

-J






Blogger Dindin whispered at Tuesday, September 26, 2006 1:15:00 AM

ANNE - yeah.. it is.. if you talk to baby G. and ask him 'bout his parents... he'll just say, "ohh... who cares?" then will give you that look and laugh his a* off.. hehehe..

on SB:
nope... don't have cash.. I "copy/paste"-ed the message and forgot to do the editing... but if you offer me a plane ticket, a place to stay and food to eat, i'll fly as soon as tomorrow... ;)
hahaha!

J - "naku pa-salamat yang si Max at italian sila pareho kung hindi baka na-itak na yan.."
AMEN.
hehehe.






Blogger Dindin whispered at Tuesday, September 26, 2006 1:26:00 AM

BASILISK - hahaha!! ganun talaga yun.. sa mga mag-kaka-close na classmates/friends... mga prediction chuva... hehehe.. pero seriously, nag-start kami mag-isip nang ganun not when she told us she was pregnant.. but when she told us that he asked her to marry him and she said, "no, because I only want to marry once... I'll wait for the man who'll be the love of my life".






Anonymous Anonymous whispered at Tuesday, September 26, 2006 3:17:00 AM

hahaha! very smart kid.. hehehe..

erm.. i can offer you the, i mean a bed and the food.. but you'll have to take care of the plane ticket.. =P
hahaha!

seriously though, when the hell are going to use your passport again?? it's been like what? 3 years already??
KJ ka!






Anonymous Anonymous whispered at Thursday, September 28, 2006 5:14:00 PM

Sorry no comment on this one. I don't know! anyways i saw some b-day greetings here so I would like to wish you belated Happy birthday. Many more blessings to come...






Blogger jaiskizzy whispered at Monday, October 02, 2006 11:48:00 AM

i dont get it. what's goin on? anyways, hello din-din! take care!





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